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Baldur’s Gate 3features a wide range ofromanceoptions for players to pursue. And while they may not be required, there is little doubt that they provide many of the game’s most memorable experiences. Whether it’s a long-term relationship maintained throughout the campaign, or a one-night stand with a devil,Baulder’s Gate 3features something for everyone. In this guide, we’ll provide a basic walkthrough forevery romance option inBaldur’s Gate 3,including how toavoid locking yourself out of any desired relationship.
All Romance Options in Baldur’s Gate 3
Romance in BG3 Explained:
From the start, it’s important to note that every romancable character will be available regardless of character sex. Every romance option is available, no matter what TAV’s characteristics are.
There are two types ofromance options inBG3, which essentially boil down toshort-termandlong-termrelationships. However, like just about everything else inBaldur’s Gate 3, everything depends heavily on which character you are trying to romance, and what your desired goals are. There are several characters in the game that allow for a ‘One-Night Stand’ situation, while others require a more drawn-out courtship.
On top of this, you can be locked out of multiple romance options. Some romance options require you to complete certain tasks in a timely manner. Some characters will not want anything to do with you if you “spread yourself around.”
Most (not all) of the companion NPCs can be romanced, and once you enter into a relationship with a companion, your experience with them will be quite different. This meansyoucannot fully experience every romance optionin a single playthrough.We cover the exact nature of each relationship in our individual relationship guides, which we’ll link to below.
The followingnon-companion charactersare available forshort-termromance:
How to Romance Shadowheart in Baldur’s Gate 3
Shadowheartmay be the most obviousromance path inBaldur’s Gate 3, as she’s likely the first companion you’ll come across after the crash, and shows interest fairly early if you build up her approval rating.Whether youshouldromance Shadowheartis simply a matter of player choice. Shadowheart is also integral to the plot in ways that other companions aren’t, so romancing her adds an interesting layer to her journey.
Shadowheart can be romanced both long-term and short-term. You’ll have a chance in every act. If you start the process in Act I, you’re able to maintain a relationship with her throughout the game.
Shadowheart Romance Special Notes:
How to Romance Gale in Baldur’s Gate 3
Gale is a wizard from Waterdeep, and definitely open to a relationship with TAV. Gale is another character who can be extremely important to the overall plot ofBG3,sothere are several reasons why you may wish to enter into a relationship with him.
Gale Romance Special Notes:
How to Romance Astarion in Baldur’s Gate 3
Astarion is a fan favorite when it comes to just about everything he does. His razor-sharp wit and devil-may-care attitude is just onereason to romance Astarion, but there are many others. He is also one of the most open-minded romance partners, so make of that what you will.
Astarion Romance Special Notes:
How to Romance Karlach in Baldur’s Gate 3
Karlachis anotherfan-favoriteromance inBG3, and likely the trickiest to initiate. Once you establish a long-term relationship with her, she is extremely sensitive about you being with anyone else. However, she has one of the best storylines, and going through it as in a relationship is extremely rewarding.
Karlach Romance Special Notes:
How to Romance Wyll in Baldur’s Gate 3
Wyll is an interesting, conflicted character. While he is not the first companion that players may think of when looking for a relationship, doing so can greatly enhance his storyline.
How to Romance Wyll:
How to Romance Lae’zel in Baldur’s Gate 3
Early in the game, Lae’zel will show a special interest in the player. It is possible to have a simple ‘One-Night Stand’ with Lae’zel, or pursue something longer-term.
Lae’zel Romance Special Notes:
How to Romance Halsin in Baldur’s Gate 3
Halsin has something of a cult following amongBG3fans, especially when it comes to romance. While there areseveral reasons to romance Halsin, the fact that he is a burly beast tamer seems to be enough for most players.
How toRomance Halsin:
If you complete Act II without finishing all of Halsin’s quests, you will be locked out of any romance options. Make sure tofully lift the Shadow Cursebefore concluding Act II.
How to Romance Minthara in Baldur’s Gate 3
Minthara is the odd woman out when it comes to romance, largely because she is seen as an enemy in most cases. There areseveral reasons to romance Minthara inBG3, especially if you are going for a true Durge or evil playthrough.
How toRomance Minthara:
Since the official release ofBaldur’s Gate 3, many players claim that you can now knock Minthara out at the Goblin Camp and then rescue her from Moonrise Towers in Act II, resulting in her joining your party. We have not tested this yet, and will update as soon as we have all the information.
